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Phil Ginsberg Memorial Suggestions

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Suggestions for what we can do to memorialize Phil and his contribution to the Kissena family, and things that we could do to help his fiancee Ebony and parents in the UK.

Phil Ginsberg Memorial Suggestions


  • A BENCH IN PROSPECT PARK (PLAQUE EXISITING $3000, NEW $7500) https://www.prospectpark.org/get-involved/commemorative-giving/give-a-commemorative-bench/

  • A SPECIAL EDITION MEMORIAL KISSENA JERSEY Just the one style of jersey to keep the effort of design and proofs to a minimum. Sell them at a decent premium over the normal jersey and donate all the extra cash. OR put an "in memory of" line on our kits

  • CREATE A CHIP-IN TO HELP FAMILY WITH FUNERAL COSTS

  • NAME ONE OF CHARLIE’S KISSENA SERIES RACES IN MEMORIAL

  • A MEMORIAL RIDE IN HIS HONOR

All are great ideas, but I think doing the bottom three would be perfect.

Phil Ginsberg Memorial Suggestions



  • NAME ONE OF CHARLIE’S KISSENA SERIES RACES IN MEMORIAL



Charlie usually runs an October race called the Kissena Fall Classic. Perhaps it becomes something like "The Phil Ginsburg Memorial Fall Classic presented by Kissena"

The other series are titled based on primary sponsor.

And absolutely a memorial ride and chip in for expenses.
I love the idea of a named race presented by Kissena.

Perhaps we can contact his family before we start passing the hat - it's impossible to guess what kind of insurance hey/they might have had through work or otherwise.
I think naming a race after Phil is great because it will both keep his memory alive for the long term and allow us to share his story with the larger cycling community. 
Phil only raced a bit of cyclocross in New York that I know of. Naming a New York road race after him seems a bit strange to me. I would encourage the club to memorialize Phil in a way that focuses on preserving his memory in Kissena or helping a cause he or his loved ones champion. In due time it should be possible to find that out from his family.

If I were still there (and I'm gutted that I'm not -- tbh I could really use some KCC team time about now), I would want to get together with the club to remember Phil. To ride and have fun and talk about how great a guy and teammate he was and to be able to talk about what happened and how we're feeling. And perhaps pause for a moment of silence on the Manhattan Bridge. I would have a hard time riding there without some kind of positive thing to weigh against the site of the tragedy.

I also feel something like a black armband to wear to races or perhaps something similar on the next order of jerseys would be an appropriate gesture and symbol of our grief.


chip in and memorial ride are definitely great ideas
I think chipping in to help with funeral costs would be great, if the family needs it. I think we should get feedback from his family / Ebony for long-term honoring effort but obviously this will take some time. I didn't know him well so it's hard to say what would be most meaningful, as a bigger public gesture.

I can say that for our own honoring of Phil, I think a memorial ride, sooner rather than later, would be good. It could be as simple as riding a few prospect laps in total silence, before opening up the ride to conversation about Phil / life. Perhaps a longer ride. We ride as a group all the time but simply coming together, as a big group, in silence, feels right to me. I was also thinking about Jeff's idea of wearing arm-bands on that sort of ride and getting a picture of the group together, so at least we could share that with Phil's family and I think it would be meaningful to have that for ourselves, as a record of this event. Maybe a Kissena social meet-up after or another time, to have a drink, in honor of Phil, would be good.

I don't have a desire to return to the Manhattan bridge, although I certainly see the meaning in that. It was a horrible experience and I think I'll be too sad to re-visit anytime soon, at least for me.

I like the idea of racing with armbands for our next race(s). I also think some type of memorial line (could be as simple as 'Phil') on our next run of kits would be good.



My original thoughts were simple, a memorial ride, agree in prospect park, sooner rather than later, and black arm bands for our next race. 

I thought we could ask Charlie for a minute of silence before the next park race.

I love what has been suggested here, perhaps naming a park race, I understand that Phil raced cyclocross rather than road, but it would still be a sweet worthy gesture. But I get it that there might be something more specific to Phil we might want to do instead. Of course, if appropriate, and after discussing with the family, some gofund could also be good.

To stay focused, start with simple things: a memorial group ride in Prospect Park. And a few black arm bands for the next race.
I have no idea on the family’s plans , but flying a body home is expensive , we could offer to help with that,

collect all the photos we have of him in Kissena and print a sort of little book to give to the family/fiancè...?

Whatever u guys agree to...I will chip in
collect all the photos we have of him in Kissena and print a sort of little book to give to the family/fiancè...?

Agree. I feel it'd be super helpful for his family to be able to dimensionalize his life here in NY by hearing people's stories and seeing pictures of him doing what he loved, that was one of the reasons for starting this thread.

Mark do you disagree, or is that in error? 
Giacomo and John, that’s a great idea. Eloy’s muddy portrait of Phil is one for the ages. 
I just wrote a long piece about why I disagree ,
and then I ran it buy my wife , and she said that a book would be beautiful thing ,
Sorry ,
i was just getting to know Phil , but it’s completely shaken me up 







A timeline is beginning to take shape:

This weekend: a memorial club ride
In the meantime: submitting photos to create a gift book 
With the family's permission: collecting money to help with expenses, or whatever they need
Next Kissena-sponsored race (7/8 L&C?): black armbands and a moment of silence
In the more distant future: naming a race after Phil

Do we have any idea yet whether we'll do the memorial ride on Saturday or Sunday?
Thanks all, I think we have somewhat of a consensus. There's lots to do, could I ask for some volunteers to spearhead these efforts?

- COORDINATE/ASSIST WITH PHIL'S MEMORIAL RIDE THIS SUNDAY, LOCATION TBD, WE'LL KNOW MORE IN THE MORNING. REACH OUT TO OTHER EX-KISSENA'S WHO KNEW PHIL (JILL, BEN...). 

- PURCHASE BLACK ARM BANDS AND DISTRIBUTE TO RACERS (CLUB WILL REIMBURSE - contact our treasurer Will)   Thanks Mark  

- MAKE A PDF WITH VIDEO/PICS/WORDS OR PHOTO BOOK TO SEND TO PHIL'S FAMILY 
 Giacomo
  
For now, we can hold off on:
- the chip-in. It's a great idea, but need to understand Phil's families needs first. In interim it'd be helpful if someone could advise best service to use. 

– approach Charlie Issendorf about idea of naming a race. Charlie is already planning to observe a minute's silence next prospect race start.

- Kissena memorial jersey—can be addressed before next kit order

- named Prospect Park bench

– Compulsory Road ID for club members

Phil's brother Tom and his parents arrive from the UK Thursday and leave Monday. Anyone who was close to Phil and wishes to meet with them this weekend, please contact me directly.

John those sound great. If whoever does the book can gather some of these heartfelt quotes I think it would be lovely.

Burb is a nice online book service, fwiw
I'll get the arm bands , 30 enough?
I'll get the arm bands , 30 enough?
Yes
I’d love to join in for the ride on Sunday, let me know the details once they are sorted as I’ll need to find a bike. 
We should check if there are any events (Biathlon, or runs, or skates) else, suggest, as mentioned, Prospect Park as the location for the ride. The park also allows for people to easily join/drop out/etc.

A quick look at the Prospect Park alliance site, does not have any special events then.
Arm bands arrive Friday
In for the sunday ride, riding, coordinating et cc... let me know also if help is needed for the book. I don't mind at all putting it together... 
There was some discussion tonight about channeling our feelings of wanting to help into something constructive. An idea to help prevent this sort of thing from happening again was suggested.

I am proposing that the club as a whole, or in part facilitate for the purchase and/or installation of an automatic external debribilator (AED) at accessible point(s) along the Manhattan Bridge bike/pedestrian paths.

As some of you might already be aware or will soon come to know the details of this past Sunday, you may feel more strongly of this idea.
That is such a great idea.  There should be AEDs along the Manhattan Bridge.  Early defibrillation is key in these sorts of cardiac events and with the isolation of the bike path on the bridge that is not currently possible. I think this is a good avenue to pursue.
Obviously, this will have to be worked out with the city.  Maybe transportation alternatives would be able to help facilitate this.
I am in for the ride on Sunday. If I can help in any other way please let me know.
All weather AED's are a nice idea -  I had AED's installed at work and they were cheaper than a bike.

That said, shockable rhythms are a small percentage of overall cardiac events. I don't say this to discourage AED's (they should be all over the place imho) but to take some of the pressure off people who may have been wondering "what if."

If I remember right - even if you do get a someone shocked, their survivability drops linearly something like 10% per minute between time of the event and time of first shock.